We all have to deal with the unfriendly person. This reader is wondering:

I am very nervous when talk with the unfriendly person, especially, when I know that he or she is not like me. i want to talk frankly, but, they don’t. How can I do this?

The simple answer is… talk to them like you would anyone else. I know this is difficult, but being great at conversation comes down to focusing on showing interest, having a good attitude, and listening.

Focus on these things and keep the conversation flowing. However, if they are really unfriendly, just consider leaving the conversation.

Here is one more idea. Match their mood. If a person is in a depressed mood, don’t at cheerful. It will be really irritating! I have made this mistake before. Act a little down yourself and then slowly become more cheerful.

You want to match the mood of the person you are talking with:

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Try this and see how it works.

Austin Barnes.

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Welcome to day 4 of our your conversation answered Marathon. Again, feel free to submit your question here

Here is today’s question:

"Why is so hard for me to make conversation?"

Reasons for Poor Social Skills and Lack of Conversation Skills

Usually when a person struggles with carrying on a conversation it can be due to four reasons.

First, a lack of training in how to carry on a good conversation. A few people are born with the ability to be great conversationalist, most have to learn it.

Second, lack of practice.

Third, lack of confidence when talking. This is usually due to the first two reasons.

Fourth, your conversation partner does not want to talk. However, as you grow in your conersation skills, these people will be few and far between. You will be able to draw them into the conversation.

Great conversation skills come down to showing interest and listening. Confidence comes from practice and using a few special mind techniques.

Learn some skills and keep practicing. You will be able to confidently talk with anyone.

Have a great day,

Austin