Don’t Be Intimidated

Have you ever felt intimidated by someone?
I am not talking about a bully with large biceps and a mean scowl.
Nope.

When I coach individuals, I’ll find that many feel intimated or uncomfortable around individuals who are more successful or popular:

It could be:
- Their manager
- A celebrity
- Someone they are romantically attracted to.

- A company owner or wealthy person

- Etc
How about you? Do these types intimate you?
Do you feel at a loss as to how to talk with them?
If so, remember this line from Larry King.
“Everyone puts their pants on in the morning one leg at a time.”
In other words, we are 90%+ alike. Every person deals with the same basic human emotions. No matter what your position in life, we all have to get dressed, wash our face, and deal with life’s details.
Recognize the other person is just like us in many ways. Then you can have a great conversation. Especially if you use the tips from the Conversation Success System

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Horror at the Gas Station and Conversation Skills

A few weeks ago I was standing in line at the gas station with a hot drink.
In the door walks a bald headed man who seemed to be a few fries short of a Happy Meal. He cut in line and wanted to be taken care of first.
The pretty clerk objected. He then commits a crime. A crime that may not get prosecuted, but will impact one person for the rest of their life.
He loudly said to the clerk, “You have a fat ***. If you were not so fat, you would be able to help people faster.
Her face dropped as she immediately received emotional scar that will stay with her.
You and I have probably not done something that outrageous.
However, do you make fun of people? Do you say mean words to your spouse, kids, or coworkers? Do you put others down?
Our words can instantly deflate a person and suck the emotional energy out of them.  We’ve been the receiver and the giver.
Psychologists say it takes 5 positive compliments to make up for one negative compliment.
Consider most people rarely hear a positive statement, it could take awhile before they recover.
Extremely hurtful words that were slung around at the gas station. It will take time and an apology to heal.
Here’s the lesson. Don’t put people down. Apologize when you do. Look for ways to pick people up.
Back to the gas station…
Customers came to the ladies defense and the police were also called. Not sure if the guy was arrested, but his words will sting forever to this one girl.

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The Power of Interest & Making Friends

 Here is one of my favorite quotes:

You can make more friends in two months by becoming interested in other people than you can in two years by trying to get other people interested in you. – Dale Carnige

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