I had a flashback 45 minutes ago.

 

My wife and I were glued to the season finale of one of our favorite shows. During a commercial for an upcoming movie, I saw Mr. J.

 

Mr J. is a movie actor who powerfully influenced my conversation skills

 

Back in high school, I saw a movie with Mr. J. He had tremendous poise, radiated confidence, and had powerful conversation skills.

 

I was at a social event and feeling a little shy. An idea flashed into my mind.

 

 

Immediately, I modeled Mr. J.'s confidence and conversation skills.  Within seconds I felt a surge of confidence and my whole manner changed in a positive way. I was able to actively engage people in conversation.

 

Now I teach my students to use this powerful modeling technique and explain more in Instant Conversation Skills.

 

Try this next time you need some confidence. Model a confident person who is great at conversation.

 

Have a great evening,